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Staging an Intervention: Help a Loved One Overcome Addiction

Helping a loved one with any type of substance use disorder (SUD) is difficult, but accepting the help for many people is just as challenging due to various reasons. An honest, open conversation can sometimes start the road to recovery, but when it’s addiction, the person with the addiction frequently doesn’t see any problem. That’s when a more focused approach is necessary. It may be required to join with others and take action through a formal intervention to help your loved one.

At Immersive Recovery in Encinitas, California, our men’s rehab center is fully equipped to help individuals struggling with various addictions receive the help they need to achieve and maintain sobriety. Here’s our guide on how to stage an intervention.

What Is An Intervention?

An intervention is a carefully planned method of addressing a person’s harmful behavior (usually related to substance use or other addictive behaviors). Interventions may involve family, friends, colleagues, or other concerned people. The main goal of an intervention is to help the person understand the negative impact of their behavior and agree to get professional treatment. It allows your loved one to accept help and make changes before things worsen.

Types of Interventions

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Interventions can be classified by the number and type of individuals staging the intervention. The different types are:

  • Simple intervention: When one person, usually a friend or family member, confronts the person with a substance use disorder (SUD) in a neutral location. It’s more likely to be successful if a professional is consulted beforehand.
  • Classic intervention: When a group of people, usually family and friends, get together to face the loved one in a non-confrontational manner to explain how the person’s SUD affects them and the need for them to get treatment.
  • Family systems intervention: This method is meant to confront the family members who are either contributing to substance use issues in one member, or sometimes, all members have substance use problems. The aim is to get all family members into treatment as a group or individually. Because of the complicated issues involved, this type of intervention requires professional help in planning and organization.

Key Elements of an Intervention

Here are some of the key elements of an intervention:

  • Organized and Planned: Interventions need to be meticulously planned. Getting the help of a professional interventionist or counselor will significantly improve the chance of success.
  • Target Specific Behaviors: Interventions focus on specific behaviors and their consequences. This helps avoid general accusations and judgmental language.
  • Express Love and Concern: Intervention participants communicate their genuine concern and care for the person.
  • Present Facts and Examples: Offer accurate examples of how the person’s behavior has affected themselves and others.
  • Offer Support and Solutions: Discuss specific treatment options and support systems.
  • Presenting Consequences: If your loved one refuses help, pre-determined consequences, such as withholding financial support or other enabling actions, should exist.
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What are the Common Goals of an Intervention?

  • Breaking Through Denial: Break through the person’s denial about the severity of their substance use.
  • Motivate Change: The intervention’s objective is to motivate the person to recognize their need for change and accept treatment.
  • Promote Treatment: An intervention promotes entry into a treatment program or other professional help.
  • Provide Support: Participants offer continuous support throughout the process of recovery.

How to Stage an Intervention?

To be successful, an intervention must be planned carefully. If not, it can make the situation even worse. Your loved one may feel like they’re being attacked and become isolated and opposed to treatment.

Form a Plan

A friend or family member suggests an intervention and forms a group to plan it. To help you get organized, it is best to work with a professional, such as a counselor, addiction specialist, psychologist, or interventionist. This highly emotional situation can cause resentment, anger, or a feeling of betrayal.

Collect Information

The group members learn about the scale of your loved one’s substance use disorder (SUD) and research the cause of the issue and how it can be treated. The group may arrange to enroll your loved one in a treatment facility.

Form an Intervention Team

The planning group is a team that participates in the intervention. Members set the date and location and work together to present a prepared, consistent message and an organized plan. Many times, the team members who aren’t family will help keep the discussion focused on the facts of the problems and shared solutions instead of emotional reactions. It’s essential that your loved one not know what’s planned until the day of the intervention.

Decide on Consequences

If your loved one doesn’t accept treatment, each team member must decide what action to take. Asking them to move out, refusing to help financially, or losing contact with children are examples of consequences for refusing help

Describe Specific Incidents

Each team member should describe specific incidents when the addiction caused problems, such as emotional or financial issues. Describe the toll their behavior takes while still being caring and believing that your loved one can change. They will have difficulty arguing with the facts or your emotional response. You could begin by saying, “I was hurt and disappointed when you drank…”

Hold the Intervention

Invite your loved one to the intervention site without explaining the reason. Team members then take turns expressing their feelings and concerns. Offer your loved one a treatment option and ask them to accept it immediately. If the plan isn’t accepted, each team member will explain what specific changes they’ll make.

Follow Up

Involving family members, a spouse, or others is critical to helping someone with an addiction stay in treatment and not relapse. This can include adapting the patterns of everyday life to make it easier to stay away from destructive behavior or agreeing to participate in counseling with your loved one. It’s beneficial to find your own therapist and recovery support, and learn what to do if your loved one relapses.

What to Avoid While Staging an Intervention?

Unfortunately, many interventions fail because of common mistakes. Here are eight mistakes people make when staging an intervention:

  • Lack of professional guidance: Interventions are emotional and complex. Without guidance from a qualified interventionist or mental health professional, it can spiral out of control.
  • Lack of planning: An intervention that is hastily organized won’t be effective. Take the time to plan every detail and choose a neutral and private location.
  • Choosing the wrong time: Holding an intervention when the person is under the influence or experiencing severe stress can derail the intervention. Pick a time when the person is sober and calm. Early in the day is usually the best.
  • Including the wrong people: Invite only people who have a supportive, positive relationship with the person. Exclude anyone who might provoke defensiveness or anger.
  • Being confrontational: Concentrate on expressing love and concern, not blame.
  • Lack of specific treatment choices: Research and arrange for specific treatment options before the intervention.
  • No follow-up plan: Establish a follow-up plan to support the person after the intervention, such as continued therapy, participation in support groups, and regular check-ins.
  • Overlooking self-care: Supporting a person through addiction and recovery is emotionally stressful. Neglecting your mental health can lead to burnout.

The Benefits of Social Support in Recovery

Social support is often noted as an essential factor in the process of recovery from drug and alcohol use. Greater social support predicts:

  • Lower substance use rates after treatment
  • Increased retention in treatment programs
  • Increased days abstinent
  • Belief in their ability to remain abstinent,
  • Fights loneliness and isolation
  • Offers accountability and encouragement
  • Positive health outcomes
  • Improved quality of life
  • Sense of well-being
  • Lowers stress
  • Help with transportation, child care, and running errands
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What If Your Loved One Accepts Help?

Support for your loved one comes in many forms. Ask them how you can be the most supportive of them. With their agreement, you can:

  • Help them develop their treatment or recovery plan, detailing personal goals
  • Go to mutual support meetings with them or on your own to connect with others who have similar experiences
  • Seek out treatment services that are right for them if you haven’t already done so

We Can Help Your Loved One Overcome Addiction

benefits of an interventionImmersive Recovery is a men’s rehab in Encinitas, CA. We are experienced in helping men turn their lives around after struggling with drug or alcohol addiction. To begin, we have a medical detox program, typically the first step in addiction treatment. Drug and alcohol withdrawal can be life-threatening, so a medically supervised detox may be necessary to prepare for further treatment.

Immersive recovery offers these programs:

  • Partial Hospitalization Program (PHP): Although this is an outpatient program, it is similar in intensity to a residential or inpatient program.
  • Intensive Outpatient Program (IOP): For people who have a less severe addiction, this program requires fewer hours in treatment.
  • Outpatient Program (OP): Due to the limited treatment hours, this standard outpatient program is suitable for continuing treatment after completing a higher level of care.
  • Dual Diagnosis Program: Sadly, many people suffering from addiction also have a mental health problem. These two conditions must be treated simultaneously.

Because this is a men-only facility, our programs are designed to address men’s issues and concerns. Men feel more comfortable and able to open up about their problems in this type of facility. You can help your loved one overcome addiction. Contact us today.

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